Does Love Hurts? Or………………

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Love is a natural wonderful feeling and it is so powerful that it can also cause us pain and there will never be any proper advice how to deal with the kind of pain it inflicts. Love hurts when there is no right foundation, when trust is betrayed, when there is no respect and when love is lost. It hurts us because we are human beings and nothing can ever prepare us for this feeling because it just comes out naturally even without inviting it. Love creates an overwhelming feeling that envelopes us and makes us very protective of the love we have. It hurts because we don’t stop thinking of ways to keep the love burning, to keep it safe. It is even more devastating when efforts prove to become futile when the love you give is not reciprocated. You can never win the game of love when there is only side of it. It is truly the saddest part of love.

Love
knows no boundaries and I wish we all should be aware of this. We simply cannot
avoid getting hurt, but as the saying goes, ‘it is better to love than to have
never loved at all’. Some times when love hurts, we tend to shut
ourselves and stop feeling anything, we get angry and blame one another. And this
blame game carries on and we don’t put a stop to it ourselves.

Why does love hurt? – because
you have strong feeling for your partner who means the world to you, so you
don’t expect them to hurt you? Yes, it is mostly the case, and when love hurts,
it pains your heart.

Love: fall but do not
stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair. Understand and try not to demand,
hurt but keep the pain. Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can
carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is
supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. IT should inspire you and give you
joy and strength. Sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in
the end. Loving people mans giving them freedom that they choose to be and
where they choose to be. Loving someone means giving them the freedom to find
their way, whether it leans towards you or away from you. Love is a painful
risk to take but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for
only then you’ll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.

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