Trust Issues In Relationships

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Trust issues in relationships can cause many problems. A relationship has
the best chance of withstanding the tests of time, if it is built on a solid
foundation that consists of love, respect and trust.
However, the world we live in is characterized by a crisis in confidence and
trust,
and virtually everyone’s trust has been betrayed at one
time or another, in one way or another.
Dishonest business men swindle clients out of billions of Naira, corrupt
officials abuse the trust placed in them and the list goes on. But what about
trust issues in relationships?

Infidelity – A Severe Breach Of
Confidence and Trust
Infidelity is a devastating breach of trust that
instantly creates trust issues in relationships. It has the same shattering
effect on a relationship as a hurricane does on a house. If a house is wrecked
in a hurricane, a builder must evaluate if it can be repaired before trying to
rebuild it.
So before attempting to rebuild a
relationship that has been shattered by infidelity, it’s wise to take your time
and determine whether the intimacy and trust in the marriage can be restored.
Dealing with trusts issues in
relationships that have been shattered by infidelity requires patience and the innocent
mate should not be pressured to make a decision in one direction or the other.
Infidelity does not have to ruin a marriage, but if trust cannot be restored things may never be the same.

Rebuilding Trust In A Relationship

It’s not easy to deal with trust issues when your relationship has been
damaged by infidelity To succeed in restoring trust the guilty partner must: 1)
end the illicit affair, 2)accept responsibility for his wrongdoing, and 3) show
that he is wholly committed to rebuilding the marriage.
If you have been the victim of infidelity, there is something YOU will have
to do too! You
will have to forgive!
Can you bring yourself to forgive your
partner? It may take time for you to forgive your partner and not continue
holding on to deep resentment. If you do so, you can both have a sound basis of hope for
rebuilding your marriage
and overcoming the trust issues in
your relationship.

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