heartache than healing.
Then, one night, your ex calls and invites you to dinner. You accept the
invitation, telling yourself it’s a good idea because you want to get your
books back from his house anyway. But, if truth be told, you really accepted
the invitation because you’re feeling lonely.
feels good to be back in familiar territory — food, wine, and conversation
flows — and before you know it, you find yourself having passionate …. with your
phenomenon. It happens more often than you would think, even with those couples
who have contemptuous breakups.
reasons, including the following:
- The desire to feel connected to someone familiar.
- An attempt to manipulate the other person into getting
- Gain back the power they lost in the relationship.
- To meet sexual needs, without looking for someone new.
- To boost self-esteem, and get reassurance that they are
normal human desires and motivations, having sex with an ex is rarely a good
idea. It blurs the boundaries, delays the process of letting go and moving on,
gives one or both parties false hope, and keeps you entrenched in a
relationship that ended for good reasons. If you want to have sex with your ex,
just be clear on what are your true motivations and intentions.
The affair with the boss may be sexy but dangerous fantasy: sneaking around,
breaking the rules. But in reality, things can get really awkward in the workplace.
Your relationship with your superior will be forever changed and, if your
coworkers find out, gossips won’t be kind. Do you want to be the office
trollop? If it ends badly, you might have to change jobs and that is such a pain.
The player is charming and in demand. You know they do it with everyone but you
just find them so attractive, you can’t help yourself. It’s hard to resist the
player, but do it. You’ll be glad you did. Not only are you just a notch on the
bedpost, it’s the bedpost of a very insecure, needy, unhappy individual. You
don’t need that.
Your best Friend
Oh, you get along in so many ways. You share your secrets and cry on each
other’s shoulders when your romantic lives go wrong. You’re soulmates!
You’re…perfect for each other? Maybe you should just try…WAIT! Before you
go there, ask yourself if it’s worth risking irreparable damage to an awesome
relationship. Once you hit the sack, you can never go back.