“It is not the strongest of the species
that survive, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to
change.” Charles Darwin
are far too many shoulds and have tos and not enough cooperation and
growth. Without change, relationships stagnate and die.
questions, open to really getting to know our selves and each other, if
we are open to learning relationship skills, practicing and
experimenting to find what works well for us in our relationship. If we
refuse to accept setbacks as failure and look for the lessons in
disappointment and frustration.
allowing ourselves to be vulnerable, to accept that we may not know all
the answers and that there may be more than one way to get what we need
and want in our relationship. Being open to change means being accepting
and respectful of other peoples truth, especially our partners’.
make is to change our mind. When we change our mind we can create
lasting change in our relationship. Changing the way we see ourselves,
our partner, and our problems can transform our lives.
Be open to change. The most
important change you will ever make is to change your attitude to one
that builds and strengthens your relationships. Embracing positive
change rather than demanding security will make your relationship more
lasting. Perhaps security is a little like happiness; in that you have
to give up trying to make it happen in order to find it.