I am confused and I need advice. My fiance(we are planning to get married next year) and I attend a fellowship together,we hold leadership positions. There is this girl that attends the fellowship,she is tripping badly that people have noticed,someone even called her to order.
Recently,I noticed he deleted his chat on bbm with her. I confronted and he said the convo was inappropriate. I told him that as a leader,there shouldn’t be such familiarity with these people and he apologised. He said she was just telling him about her toasters and I made it clear to him that she is only telling him that she is hot that he would Бέ foolish not to want her.
She also started calling/pinging me recently,at the end of every convo she wud ask of my fiance. She went to his workplace area and tried to set up a date with him but he didnt go cos he was busy. She is getting bolder by the day,what do I do?
This was my response, please add yours;
It baffles me when some women are so bold in going after men who are already committed. I suggest you have a heart to heart with your man first. Tell him how this situation makes you feel. Then ask that he categorically makes it known to this woman that he is taken. When he refuses her offers of dates, it should be either because he’s not interested or because of you, not because he’s busy. He should also lose her number and BBpin if necessary. On your own, I will not advise talking to the girl, it will look desperate and tacky. Since others are already calling her to order, that is good. Hopefully, your fiance standing up for himself will finish the job. Otherwise, you need to lose her contacts too.