She Organised Papers For Me To Come To USA But I Don’t Love Her Anymore

I’m a 29-year-old man who is dating a 41-year-old woman. I was born and grew up in Nigeria, then I met this woman on Facebook early last year. After dating online for almost a year she organised for me to come to USA, and we have been cohabiting since last December. Her husband passed away in a car accident some five years back.
The problem is that I don’t love this woman anymore. She too was born in Nigeria and has been staying in USA for 15 years. She has a high paying job, but she treats me like a kid and always tells me what to do. I don’t like hurting her emotions but at the same time I can’t spend the rest of my life with her. How best can I terminate this relationship without making her feel like I dumped her? 
I Need help please!

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