You’d think we’d evolve past it, but young women who are about to be 30 or in their early 30s still implicitly taught that the only way to succeed is to find a husband and that too, before they’re 30. But we’ve come far enough to know that’s just not true. Marriage can be great, am having a blast with it but desperation for marriage because of age is not okay.
3 lies you’ve been told that’s getting you worried
1. If you don’t get married before 30, it will be too late. Lie!!!
No, women do not have expiration dates after which they become un-weddable.
2. Women in their 30s and has a career aren’t weddable: this suggest that a woman who attempts to juggle a high-powered career can’t possibly keep a family and marriage in the air, too. But we know that’s just not true, even if women are working as much as men. Today, women are racking up long hours of work a week as their husbands. Women’s achievements don’t weaken a marriage. If anything, they bring more to the table.
3. Most other women your age are getting married.
The persistent recurrence of engagement season — with diamond rings and “He proposed!” statuses cluttering your Facebook – is enough to give any woman the perception that she is the only one her age not getting married. Get over yourself, your time will come.
Pls Note, Marriage is not a golden ticket to happiness!